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Sep112010

“OK. Well, it was a pleasure meeting you.”

You met someone at a party and were talking with them for a few minutes. Now she has signaled that she's going to end the conversation and go talk to other people. You want to say "goodbye" to her politely. You say:

OK. Well, it was a pleasure meeting you.

Well

"Well" is a word that you use when you're finishing a conversation or a topic. Some other examples of "well" used in this way are:

Well, hang in there.

Well, it's nice to have you back.

it was a pleasure meeting you

This is a polite phrase that you say to someone that you've just met for the first time at the end of the conversation. It's a bit formal. Some more casual phrases that mean mostly the same thing are:

It was nice to meet you.

Nice meeting you.

How do you decide when to use a more formal phrase or a more casual one to say goodbye to a person you just met?

  • If you made a lot of jokes with this person during your conversation, you might use the casual version.
  • If you met at a formal occasion where you were all wearing suits or nice dresses, you might use the formal version.
  • If you want to impress the other person because they're more powerful and important than you, you can use the more formal version.
  • If you think you're going to speak with this person again soon, like when you've been introduced to a new coworker, use the more casual version.

Remember that these are phrases that you say at the end of the conversation. At the beginning of a conversation, there are phrases that sound similar but are a little different:

Nice to meet you.

Pleased to meet you.

"Pleased to meet you" sounds too formal and old-fashioned to me, but some people might use it.

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