“He said it so matter-of-factly, I didn't know what to make of it at first.”
The guy you've been dating told you that he's moving away to another country. You're shocked because you thought the relationship was serious, but he didn't seem to care. Now you're telling a friend the story of what happened., you say this about how he delivered the news.
He said it so matter-of-factly, I didn't know what to make of it at first.
Saying something "matter-of-factly" means that you say it without much emotion, the way that you would say a simple sentence like "It's five o'clock".
This phrase means that a person didn't understand something or didn't know what it was. In the example above, the speaker didn't know whether the guy was serious or joking, whether he really didn't care about her or whether he was trying to hide his true feelings.
Other feelings that you might have when you "don't know what to make of" something are:
- You're not sure whether something is good or bad.
- You can't decide what something is.
- You don't know why a person said something the way that they said it.